The Sunday DOWNdog POST
In honour of Valentine’s Day, this week’s DOWNdog POST is dedicated to love. I hope you enjoy this special Valentine’s edition.
The idea for this week’s DOWNdog Post came to me while reading Olive Again, a novel by Elizabeth Strout. Two characters in the story had a conversation during which they shared their belief in something beyond this world. Some unknown power or guiding hand…
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My father loved to sing. Every year, my father’s side of the family held a family reunion in Shawinigan, Quebec. When we were at one of the annual family gatherings I remember, like it was yesterday, my father kneeling on his left knee next to his sister, Therese, who was in a wheelchair. He would have been about 83 at the time and she, 85. As I witnessed the scene, it was as if there was no one else in the backyard where the party was being held. It was just my father and his sister and myself looking on. The party was blurred in the background.
He was singing the song, “Mon hirondelle”. He sang every verse while never once turning away, gazing steadily into her eyes. When I looked at him, I was mesmerized. It was like looking at someone who was asking his beloved if she would marry him. He had so much love in his heart.
Whenever I recall this incident, my heart goes out to my father, a man who was capable of such deep love but who rarely expressed it in his lifetime. I know he would have wanted his life to have been different.
My father passed away February 27th, 2019 at the age of 97.
According to myths and legends, robins appear once a loved one has passed. Last spring, as many of you recall, a robin came to build her nest on a wreath next to the entrance to the yoga studio. I named her Robbie. I was mesmerized by this beautiful bird… just as I had been at the family reunion, 14 years ago, by my father. I believe Robbie was an angel sent by my father. She was my father’s harbinger of love.
Namaste my dear friends and students! Get set this week for another awesome practice: yoga for the heart.
đHappy Valentine’s Day!đ
Jocelyne, Valentine and Dr. Jake